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"Children learn from their parents the qualities and values we envision as humane in our society." Arlene M. Fulton, Child Development Specialist, Oklahoma State University.

To NURTURE children is to accept, support and love them. Nurturing may be the most important gift parents can give their children. Children who are nurtured grow into secure and healthy adults. However, parents face many stresses, and nurturing can be hard if you feel you don’t have enough energy, love and patience to go around. Each child may also have different needs and like different kinds of nurturing. You can be a good nurturer by paying attention to your children’s needs, building good relationships, and loving and supporting them consistently.

Practices for NURTURING

Be loving and kind.
Foster your children’s self-respect and hope.
Listen to and respect your children’s feelings and ideas.
Teach kindness.
Provide for the nutrition, shelter, clothing, health, and safety needs of your children.
Have fun with your children.
Help children learn about their family history and cultural heritage.

What We Know About NURTURING

The most important single thing a parent can do for their children is to nurture them. Research has shown that children who feel loved and approved of by their parents behave better, do better in school, and stay away from drugs.

Children who are nurtured respond better to discipline and other parenting efforts.

Children who are not well nurtured often don’t behave or get along well with other children.

Children who are nurtured show more kindness, sympathy and friendliness towards others.

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This material is adapted with permission. Smith, C. A., Cudaback, D., Goddard, H. W., & Myers-Walls, J. A. (1994). National Extension Parent Education Model. Manhattan, KS: Kansas Cooperative Extension System.

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